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Celebrating the little luxuries at Christmas

Christmas reindeer

A luxury lifestyle often brings to mind images of brimming-with-Chanel wardrobes, 5 star hotel stays and chauffeur driven cars. My opinion has always been that you don’t need these kinds of things to live a life that feels luxurious.

So, what about a luxurious Christmas? I think we’re all sometimes guilty of wanting more, particularly during the festive season. A bigger and better tree, more expensive decorations to wow any visitors and ALL of the food. Well, I know that last one is definitely me. Oops.

It’s all too easy to get tree envy, to feel pressured into spending a fortune on gifts and feeling the need to splurge on everything to try to impress people for no apparent reason.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve heard about many people who aren’t looking forward to Christmas. There are a lot of people struggling, whether it’s through grief, hardship or loneliness and the festive period can be very difficult.

I recently watched the Old People’s Home for 4 Year Olds Christmas special on Channel 4. They repeated the experiment they first tried a little while ago where a group of 4 year old children were taken into a retirement community. Many of the elderly residents had previously been feeling depressed, helpless about the future and declining in confidence. Spending time with the children really helped to improve their moods, outlook and even health.

This time, the 4 year olds visited the same retirement community over Christmas. The sheer delight on the residents’ faces to be reunited with the children was so joyous. To see the elderly people so happy to be engaging with the children, joining in with festive activities and having things to look forward to was so nice to see. If you haven’t seen the programme and want to watch it, I highly recommend having a box of tissues nearby!

The programme also showed how many elderly people in the wider community relied on a charity telephone befriending service. They were lonely every day and particularly at Christmas. Just to have someone talking to them over the phone was something that meant so much to them.

Seeing how tough so many people find the festive season makes me feel so thankful for little luxuries. Because I feel it can be easy to forget about them in this world of constant commercialism and comparison.

Celebrating the little luxuries at Christmas makes us realise that the festive season is so much more than just a time of wishlists and splashing out. It’s also a time to treasure and celebrate everything we have and to see just how lucky we truly are.

For me, having a family who care deeply about me is something I hold very dear. To be able to celebrate Christmas Day with my husband and family, all of us being healthy, is the most wonderful thing. There will be a lot of people feeling alone, so getting to spend the whole day with people close to me is amazing.

All of us having the day off work together is definitely something I never take for granted. A lot of people out there won’t be so lucky. There aren’t many times in our busy lives when we get the luxury of spending the whole day together eating delicious food and relaxing, so it’s something we all cherish.

Enjoying a home cooked Christmas lunch with all the trimmings is definitely something to celebrate. Pigs in blankets, roast potatoes, homemade stuffing – well, I just can’t wait. When there are a lot of people in this world who would do anything to enjoy a nice meal, being able to have this kind of food feels like a real gift. It’s something I always feel so thankful for.

My Auntie and Uncle write a small letter in our Christmas card every year and I always enjoy reading what they have to say. It’s a nice feeling to know that even though we live miles apart, they are thinking of us every year and take the time to ask how we are and take a real interest in our lives. Sometimes it’s the smallest of things that make a big difference.

It may sometimes feel like your Christmas isn’t as incredible, as memorable and as show-stopping as everyone else’s, but when you choose to focus on the little luxuries, you may well find that your Christmas is far more luxurious and fabulous than you realised.

What little luxuries will you be celebrating this Christmas?

However you choose to celebrate, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and a very happy new year.

 

 

 

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10 Comments

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    Courtney Hardy
    22nd December 2017 at 14:25

    Sounds awesome. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas.
    https://sugarcoatedbears.blogspot.com/

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      LuxeStyle
      10th January 2018 at 14:06

      Thanks so much Courtney – hope you had a fabulous Christmas x

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    Georgia
    22nd December 2017 at 16:41

    This is such a lovely post! I always feel awful for people that are lonely, especially at Christmas. It’s so lovely that simple things like having children around brightens their day, I’ll have to watch that show! Sounds like you’ll be having a sweet Christmas, enjoy it! x

    Georgia Megan

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      LuxeStyle
      10th January 2018 at 14:07

      Thank you Georgia! Hope you had a fabulous Christmas x

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    Gabrielle
    27th December 2017 at 15:16

    You’re absolutely right, it can be the smallest of things that make all the difference! Sometimes, being surrounded by candles can be enough of a little indulgence! I hope you had a wonderful Christmas – it certainly sounds like it 🙂

    Gabrielle | A Glass Of Ice x

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      LuxeStyle
      10th January 2018 at 14:10

      Yes definitely! I had a lovely Christmas thank you Gabrielle – I hope you did too x

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    Mica
    30th December 2017 at 03:31

    Oh what a beautiful show! I wish we had that here! We actually have a local playgroup that’s in a retirement home, so that the kids and the residents can play together. It’s a beautiful idea, but after the centre that runs it has a bad outbreak of an illness and even some deaths as a result recently, I never went for it. Perhaps when my little one doesn’t have such a compromised immune system we can try go 🙂

    And it’s so true, Christmas is the simple things. While the food and presents are nice, it’s the time with family I treasure! 🙂

    Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and are having a great week! It’s hard to believe there are just a few days left in 2017! A happy new year to you.

    Away From The Blue Blog

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      LuxeStyle
      10th January 2018 at 14:14

      It was so lovely to watch! The playgroup in the retirement home sounds like a lovely idea – I hope everyone starts feeling much better. We had a lovely Christmas thank you and I hope you did too. Happy new year! x

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    Abbey Louisa Rose (@abbeylouisarose)
    3rd January 2018 at 20:15

    This post gets a massive round of applause from me, Jenny! Sometimes it does take things like the TV show you mention to put things in perspective and show you just how lucky you really are! The number of presents under the tree and the amount was spent on them really doesn’t matter when compared to things like having your whole family present and everyone being happy and healthy! I hope that you and your family had a wonderful Christmas with the truly delectable Christmas dinner!

    Abbey ? http://www.abbeylouisarose.co.uk

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      LuxeStyle
      10th January 2018 at 14:18

      Thanks so much Abbey! The number of presents really doesn’t matter to me – I care much more about spending time with people I love. I had a lovely Christmas thank you and I hope you did too x

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